Two Envelope Paradox solution with minimal mathematics
If the maximum possible value is finite things balance out because when one has the maximum value, swapping from it to the other will wipe out the gains in going from a smaller to a larger value. If there is no upper bound then the probability of large values must fall off, hence one cannot say that the chance of getting double the value is 50%. That only leaves the pathological cases, where although the probability of high values decreases, it decreases more slowly than do the values themselves. In such distributions the expected gain for swapping with the other value in your pair is positive in every case.
In infinite sets, such as the
counting numbers, the mean value is infinite, whereas every actual number is
finite. So every counting number is below average. Thus the mean value, which is used in gain
calculations, does not indicate the expected value in the way that it does in
finite sets. Because every
actual value is smaller than the infinite mean, the
expected gain, which is based on the mean, does not determine utility. The
positive gain calculated in problematic 2EP distributions results from the mean
making the grass look taller in a paddock just like ours. Thus 2EP is a
disguised version of the counter-intuitive fact that every element of an unbounded set is
below average.
Whether
we open an envelope or not, we should be indifferent to switching because of
symmetry: nothing suggests that one envelope is preferable to the other.